Ubahsur Kindellaer
Aes Sedai
Haha, I remember posting something very, very like this when I was a citizen :P. Even got some of the same responses (the one about there being so many JMs that some SMs felt intimidated, for example) and got totally freaked out because I thought I might have pissed someone off . And now I am a hermit myself - believe me, the irony is not lost on me.
Anyway, I try to post a bit more in the open-ish forums these days than what I have done in a few years, but like some of the others I typically find it easier to participate in forums that contain something else than a bunch of emotes. However, if people see me lurking on the boards and want to get to know me I generally quite like getting PMs!
That you've managed to amass 2k posts in a month and a half is fairly impressive, no question... But a pest? No.I have worried on a daily basis that I'm being a pest.
That you've managed to amass 2k posts in a month and a half is fairly impressive, no question... But a pest? No.
Raevi - I'm so glad you started this topic!! I had a lot of the same thoughts when I started, which is part of why it took me a while to apply to the Tower.
Ubahsur Sedai - I like your summary and it explains a lot.
What I would add as food for thought for those of you who are comfortable and afraid of us newbies, put yourselves in our shoes. Although many people come here already knowing folks, some of us do not. One of the things that makes TV so appealing is the camaraderie y'all have - which is both cool and intimidating as an outsider. So if one is new, doesn't have an "in" from the start, is also on the introverted and nerdy scale as mentioned above, it can be difficult to know where to fit.
Bottom line? You made it awesome and drew people to your awesome-ness! And we want to continue and share in this awesomeness. So peek in every once in a while, trust me y'all are a lot scarier than we are!
What I would add as food for thought for those of you who are comfortable and afraid of us newbies, put yourselves in our shoes. Although many people come here already knowing folks, some of us do not. One of the things that makes TV so appealing is the camaraderie y'all have - which is both cool and intimidating as an outsider. So if one is new, doesn't have an "in" from the start, is also on the introverted and nerdy scale as mentioned above, it can be difficult to know where to fit.
What I would add as food for thought for those of you who are comfortable and afraid of us newbies, put yourselves in our shoes. Although many people come here already knowing folks, some of us do not. One of the things that makes TV so appealing is the camaraderie y'all have - which is both cool and intimidating as an outsider. So if one is new, doesn't have an "in" from the start, is also on the introverted and nerdy scale as mentioned above, it can be difficult to know where to fit.
"Lovely" and "intimidating" are not mutually exclusiveno they aren't. The Reds are lovely ladies! *snuggles up the Reds*