Balefire is the Green Ajah toasting drink. It is an interesting shot that may or may not be sort of secret...
Something like that... aka most people, even some Greens try to stay away from it.
*tackle hugs Fearg* glad you could make it and have already started reading :D
As to corruptable, having survived the wedding, and a balefire toast, I pretty sure you are well on your way. ^^
That being said, if you have any questions, feel free to let me know.