Right, and I'm not saying that Rand is in the wrong. I'm just saying that from her perspective, as an equally moody 20-something Aiel under the tutelage of Wise Ones, this would be how it would be perceived to her.
So, I wanna start this off by saying Aviendha is my favorite character. :lol
Anyway, as has been said, a lot of her reasoning is spoilers. But, I can help a bit here. At this point, her life has been turned on its head. She spent her whole life dreaming of becoming a Maiden of the Spear...