At this link, each party has a number after it. (So if you click on "Anniversary Party," you see a quick rundown of where it was held and about how many showed up to each one, all on one page.)
http://library.tarvalon.net/index.php?title=Events_and_Conferences
(Now that I think of it, I bet most live raisings involve said Oath Rod. :p Vallah had made an *actual* Oath Rod with the intention of it being used at that party and all future ones, but, um....it wasn't gonna work. :look)
I believe currently that a guy would still become a Recruit, and then could choose to be Accepted or Soldier upon raising, visit both Ajahs and Companies, and settle into the group of his choice. But then I'm fairly certain he would be an Aes Sedai of X Ajah.
(I could be entirely wrong, but I...