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Having a Citizen-only forum is a great idea. As far as I know, all of their spaces are at least semi-public, and every other group has its own space. SMs have lots of their own places based on group, gender, everyone together, etc. and JMs have the Abandoned Corridor to hang out in.

I partially disagree with this. It takes years for a group's membership to change. Although membership shouldn't be the only thing you look at, and you do need to fit into a group's mission, it's also okay to consider the current membership as well. I did, and it affected my initial guesting in...

A group's reaction would probably depend on which group it is. If you're open and honest about how you feel, I'm guessing there are still some Ajahs/Companies who would accept you and raise you anyway. That may not be an ideal solution, but it's one that's currently available.