(aarrg, I wrote a long post and then lost it... sucks. I try summarize :) )
I totally agree with you. Her actions are not acceptable. But it is very human thing not to accept our loved ones as they are. Faile just cannot believe Perrin is so honest and direct (and not manipulative) so she tries...
I like Faile. You have remember she is very young, has lived very sheltered life and only behaves like she is suppose to (culture-wise). And that do not match well with Perrin's culture & personality. We readers get Perrin's POV a lot and feel his pain when he cannot understand Faile. But don't...
I just think I love and hate every character (on the light side that is). Eveyone has a star moment (or plenty) but also everyones give me a *have to chew my legs* feeling.
But I absolute hate Fain the peddler. I think he is just creepy. And I hate Liandrin the evil white...er...black. And I...