I mean, I know Min doesn't get all the details from a viewing, but I don't recall her saying to Siuan that she had to stick like a burr to Bryne for the rest of her life.
(Referring to Siuan) She had time to do what Alanna did even though Alanna's conditions were much more dire.
Egwene made the right choice with Leilwin.
Siuan had the choice to release the bond and save her lover's life (they weren't married yet)
I have a feeling I need to finish relistening to AMoL before asking what events you're referring to here. I just started the mega-chapter.
Time to stop myself from fact checking at wot.wikia...:novice
The Companion says they never married so it never happened
The Thing is this, Siuan could have released the bond before she died. Min warned her well before she was in danger. She had time to do what Alanna did even though Alanna's conditions were much more dire. Siuan had the choice to release the bond and save her lover's life (they weren't married yet) or keep the bond and have him go through warder rage. Egwene made the right choice with Leilwin.
Yeah, especially since Egwene did it with Leilwin, she could have done it with Gawyn too. Yes, she loved him, and it would be painful anyway, but releasing the bond would at least allowed her to keep fighting... I also think she would have survived then