Welcome, Bede! Stasia is made of awesomesauce, and I'm excited to get to know the man that captured her heart <3 And your Star Wars wedding was epic, wish I could have been there!
To answer your question regarding the name, you say you are the husband of Stasia t'Andrei, yes? In Wheel of Time, t' is used to denote marriage. So for example, Stasia's last name means she is married to a man with the last name of "Andrei", so perhaps you could go with that, if it takes your fancy. If not, you can choose just about any other last name that is not from the books or already taken. We, the members of the Welcoming Committee, are here to recognise if there are duplicates of a first/last name. Also, a small tip - if you wish to post a visitor's message to someone else, you click on their profile and leave it there.
Welcome again to Tar Valon, we are very happy to have you!
Along with Ahmyra and Kveldolf, I'm a member of the Welcoming Committee. If you have any questions about the site's features or questions on avatars/signatures please let me know! You may apply for citizenship once you reach 25 posts so that is essentially the next step. I'm here if you have any questions at all!
You may reach me directly at mayor@tarvalon.net or feel free to send me a visitor message back. I hope you have an awesome time exploring the site and getting to know us even more than you already have! <3