Okay, So who do you think Rand loves the most of his girlfriends? Or who loves him the most? I would have to answer that his true love is Min. He meets her first, before there is an inkling of his destiny and they were already attracted to each other. But more than that, she is the one that he constantly goes to when no one else understands, when he is in need of a friend and a partner. Min is the best woman for Rand, despite Elayne's mothering his children and Aviendha's destiny to give him children. Elayne and Rand fight more often than not, and really are apart for most of the stories. Aviendha and him, despite a few lustful encounters, really don't feel like there is as much between them. Rand mostly depends on and trusts Min. Min is the best woman for Rand and loves him for who he is more than the other women. Anyone else?