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Discussion in 'Introductions' started by Andwin de'Gothia, Sep 21, 2018.

  1. Jaim al`Bearach

    Jaim al`Bearach Gaidin

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    Welcome back
     
  2. Andwin de'Gothia

    Andwin de'Gothia

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    Thank you Jeffan Caliarthan.
     
  3. Andwin de'Gothia

    Andwin de'Gothia

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    Looks like I have become a real rebel now as I voiced my opinion on the upcoming TV Show in a thread were I was supposed to do just that “voice my opinion”.

    The only thing is the one that started the thread forgot to add “as long as you agree with everyone else!”.

    Looks like things really have changed here from the last time I was here.
     
  4. Andwin de'Gothia

    Andwin de'Gothia

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    Thank you Jaim al`Bearach
     
  5. Asandra al'Terra

    Asandra al'Terra Marquise de Sparkle Aes Sedai Director of Mods and Ops Forum Moderator

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    I'm afraid I don't remember you at all, and am very curious as to what your name was previously and when you used to be a member.

    Our site is open to debate, and welcomes it. If you were to become a full member, you would see that we have many other forums where debate occurs, including Current Events.

    However, I would like to note that we are a community where we respect other members, not out of "political correctness," but because we genuinely care about each other as people, regardless of background, gender identity, race, religion, et cetera. If that does not appeal to you, perhaps we have evolved away from you, and you'd be happier in a different community.

    If you feel ill-served, please do report to the mods, or email me at moderators@tarvalon.net. You may also email the Keeper at keeper@tarvalon.net if you do not feel comfortable contacting me or my mods. We do keep moderation private out of respect for all parties, so I suggest that any further conversation on this topic be moved to email.
     
  6. Andwin de'Gothia

    Andwin de'Gothia

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    As I have said from the start, I do not have any ill feelings about anyone and my comment was just my opinion on the TV show and how. I did not talk ill about ANY one in this community, and I respect everyone as I have always done regardless of background, gender identity, race, religion, et cetera.


    It was some of the other members that did not respect that I was of another opinion than them, and therefor started their personal attacks on me when they simply could have said that they disagree with me and I would have respected it.


    This is no big thing for me as I really do not care what people call me but I would think there might be younger people here and people that get hurt by being attacked by moderators and long time members and I think that’s something you should look more into than me saying I do not like the way the TV series seams to go.


    But again, this is a closed case for me and I think that for the most part people here are kind and polite and I will just have to live with knowing there are some bad apples in the basket.


    My name was Andwin de'Gothia and the reason I had to create a new profile was I have lost the mail account for the Andwin de'Gothia profile, but if you could send me the password I could continue using that one if you prefer that.
     
  7. Alora Sionn

    Alora Sionn Gaidin Outreach Activities Coordinator

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    I know Sa'areah can help you out, email membership@tarvalon.net :)
    And I do have to say I admire your composure. I would hope that we are the type of community that accepts that others have differing opinions and can discuss them calmly and respectfully. I'm of the mind that if we were all the same, life would be boring lol so go ahead and email Sa, get your old account back and settle in and explore. See you around the boards and let me know if you have any questions!
     
  8. Andwin de'Gothia

    Andwin de'Gothia

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    Thank you Alora Sionn,

    I agree fully with you that it would be boring if everyone was the same and that as long as one respect one another’s opinion there should not be any problems.

    I will try sending an email as you suggest.

    Thanks again for your kind words.
     
  9. Avendaella Tikvah

    Avendaella Tikvah Aes Sedai

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    Hey there and welcome back! (Even if I wasnt around before and stuff :look)
     
  10. Asandra al'Terra

    Asandra al'Terra Marquise de Sparkle Aes Sedai Director of Mods and Ops Forum Moderator

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    As mentioned in my previous post, if you continue have any concerns about the issue, please reach out to moderators@tarvalon.net or, if you feel uncomfortable coming to me, keeper@tarvalon.net, as that is more effective way to resolve things than posting about it in an Introductions thread. I would also be happy to explain to you why your initial post in the thread you continue to bring up came off as harmful, hurtful, and dismissive to some of our members if this is still unclear to you. However, I will not be continuing this discussion in this thread, and -- if the issue really is water under the bridge to you -- I urge you to let it go and stop posting about it. :)

    As Alora mentioned, you can reach out to Sa' about reinstating your membership if you so desire.
     
  11. Andwin de'Gothia

    Andwin de'Gothia

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    [QUOTE="Asandra al'Terra[/QUOTE]

    Keep posting about WHAT ??? :D
     
  12. Viriva al'Dere

    Viriva al'Dere Citizen

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    Hi Arion, it's good to meet you :)
     
  13. Andwin de'Gothia

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  14. Nandi el'Shahir

    Nandi el'Shahir Sparkle Spren Aes Sedai

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    Welcome back!
     
  15. Andwin de'Gothia

    Andwin de'Gothia

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    Thank you :D